A Leader Worth Following

By Rev. Dr. Lakeya Stewart
FWIS Contributing Writer

For the last several weeks I have been asking myself the question, “Am I a leader worth following?” This question requires deep introspection and reflection. It is not one that should be taken lightly, as leaders often carry with them an influence that can be used for good or for evil.

A leader worth following is one who is patient, considerate, selfless and is a guide. They are not leading out of selfish ambition as if they have “arrived” to the greatest peak of potentiality as a leader. In fact, they are selfless and will often give up their seat at the proverbial table to pull others along to the top. This is a selfless and caring act. A leader worth following is considerate of the feelings and personal aspirations of those they lead. They are not mean and nasty, but rather demonstrate compassion and care even when it is not convenient for them.

As I consider those who I deem are worthy of following, I notice that these leaders command attention when they walk into rooms. I have seen this in classrooms, board rooms, and meetings. A leader worth following does not abuse this influence. They are sensitive and attentive to the needs of those who are watching, observing, learning and following them.

The weight of leadership is a hefty bill to carry. It requires discipline and it requires humility. As I reflect on this, sometimes I feel a sense that this is unattainable. As a leader and a person of faith, I have found that I can look to my perfect example, and His name is Jesus. Scripture like Matthew 11:29 says, “Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls” (KJV) and Mark 10:45 says, “For even the Son of man came not to be ministered unto, but to minister, and to give his life a ransom for many.” (KJV) These scriptures are just a few that come to mind as I reflect on the character and nature of Christ.

The reality is that leading can be difficult. Leaders sometimes find themselves leading difficult people and often the last thing one wants to do is allow someone to walk over on them as if they are a coat that one steps on to cover a puddle. Leading can certainly feel this way, at times. Leading in this way is often uncomfortable and can be painful. No one ever told me leading had the potential to be painful.

When a leader is feeling the pain and weight of leadership, those who find hope in Christ can look to Jesus for encouragement and direction. It is not always easy, but a leader worth following understands their assignment is not ALL about them. It is also about the people they are called to serve. I challenge you who are reading this to consider the question, “Am I a leader worth following?” After much reflection, we may find we have some work to do. If so, I am cheering you on. We can do tough things

Be blessed.